... those who had them, those who have it, and who must have ...
Our ancestral Latin, especially us males, rejects the idea of \u200b\u200bhorns, foolishly thinking to own a pseudo "advantage" against women. In fact, the infidelity is somewhat inherent in us all and affects the most remote corners of the earth (the film The Bridges of Madison Country it is a shining example). Having said this does not necessarily have to be desperate housewives or accountants of Pistoia to be driven by a strong drive to break the marriage relationship. Today we witness a shift of the barbarian hordes in search of new emotions because everything is relegated to a sort of challenge between the sexes. Mi raccontava un mio amico che lui fa affari a noleggiare auto per 2, 3 ore, con il telefono che squilla in continuazione per cercare di aggiudicarsi la Ferrari o la Maserati per poter andare in discoteca ed apparire, per avere più chances "nell'imbrocco".
Ma il tradimento, la fuga, l'essere fedigrafi non pregiudica un atteggiamento poi troppo negativo o riprovevole. Giurare fedeltà al proprio uomo o alla propria donna non implica ammanettarsi per tutta la vita, o castrarsi nel non vedere o nel non fare... Tutto stà a capire cosa effettivamente vogliamo. Spesso e volentieri siamo portati al tradimento per cercare quello che più non abbiamo in casa, quello che non riusciamo ad ottenere dal nostro rapporto quotidiano, e tendiamo a search for new flavors and new emotions. This is partly true, however, because our partners in the long run, it becomes "habit", but not in the bad sense of the word, but perhaps because we are not able to renew ourselves in gestures, in intimate moments, in the arguments. But if you think about this we can not find even "with the new," because many of us were super the first time? It is true, the mechanism is the usual tit for tat, but it is not true as it seems. The first time offenders from becoming more a relief than anything else where the only thing different is the novelty of the person, but otherwise tends to suffer a little performance anxiety from having always thought the drive (while six of them) to say: "I happen and when?". But we are all victims of the treachery of the partners, science and mathematics, because betrayal is even looking or thinking that "unclean" that goes through your head, masterfully described in the poem the poet Fusi "She Move," which remains a prisoner and will cause a shock. The detail of the mouth, hands, eyes, of that phrase thrown them in the middle, he or she appeared one day that door, from that scent ... Beautiful, romantic, this approach goes beyond the sexual instinct, that of the disco like "if you do not trumpet today ..." regardless of who you can find ... What do the animals to mate and define the horns, but more degradation of the individual ...
It takes a certain class, even in the "betrayal" would not call this, because basically what those who betray and betray ... Already I hear the whistles of the Puritans, those of marriage up-to-death-not-that-we-separate and then maybe find acid to 50 years, maybe bad repressed employers or colleagues. No sir ... compliments, looks, expressions of "love" part of us, our way of life, because if they were the wives or husbands car, the cycle will change to show those feelings and that sense of rejuvenation that pervades every time meets an angel (Rambaldo Melandri docet) ... That's why the horns are like measles, because in relationships (marriage, cohabitation) there will always be that moment of weakness, that whisper inside that makes you shake. The seriousness is that the moment does not ruin the lives of couples, especially if there are children who have to have brothers or sisters, mothers and fathers who are left to take in situations exactly alike, except that a split with a knife between teeth. Caputo said, "... put the horns therapeutic ...". But the sentence was no longer true. As for measles, the horns are an "evil" that sooner or later arrive, and often also helps you appreciate what you have, because back home loaded with six new life, and maybe you are led to seek, in her or he lost that flavor but ended up with that figure appeared one day, in an afternoon of your life ...
And you already got the measles?
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